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Letting Go of Self-Blame: Understanding the Impact of Past Behaviors on Fertility Struggles
Jessica Katz Jessica Katz

Letting Go of Self-Blame: Understanding the Impact of Past Behaviors on Fertility Struggles

It's common for women struggling with infertility to experience a deep sense of self-blame. You might find yourself questioning if something you did—or didn’t do—contributed to your current fertility challenges. Did the choices you made in your past, whether in terms of lifestyle, diet, or even emotional stress, somehow affect your ability to conceive? Or, on the other hand, are you grappling with guilt over what might feel like "missed opportunities" for care in the past?

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How to stay sane when your most called contacts are your Infertility Clinic, Pharmacy, and Insurance
Jessica Katz Jessica Katz

How to stay sane when your most called contacts are your Infertility Clinic, Pharmacy, and Insurance

For many women struggling with infertility, the journey to becoming a mother can feel like an emotional rollercoaster, and unfortunately, delays and waiting are often part of the ride. If you're trying to move forward with an IVF cycle but are caught in the frustrating loop of needing insurance approvals—whether for a retrieval or transfer cycle—you are not alone. It’s completely natural to feel a sense of anger, loss of control, or even helplessness as you wait for the green light from insurance companies and clinics.

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Jealous of Your Sibling’s Pregnancy? You’re Not Alone
Jessica Katz Jessica Katz

Jealous of Your Sibling’s Pregnancy? You’re Not Alone

Infertility is a deeply personal journey, one that can feel isolating and filled with uncertainty. But what happens when your path to parenthood intersects with the journey of a sibling who is experiencing pregnancy or planning for their own family? How do you navigate the complicated emotions of wanting to celebrate your sibling’s joy while grappling with your own grief, envy, and feelings of inadequacy?

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When to Stop IUI and Move to IVF
Jessica Katz Jessica Katz

When to Stop IUI and Move to IVF

If you’ve been struggling with infertility, you might be asking yourself: When is it time to stop trying IUI (Intrauterine Insemination) and move on to IVF (In Vitro Fertilization)? It’s a question that comes with so much weight—emotional, financial, and physical. And it’s perfectly normal to feel confused, frustrated, or even defeated by this decision.

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How to Know When It’s Time to Switch IVF Clinics
Jessica Katz Jessica Katz

How to Know When It’s Time to Switch IVF Clinics

Choosing the right IVF clinic is a pivotal decision in your fertility journey. It can make all the difference in how you feel supported, informed, and empowered. If you're questioning your current clinic, here are some signs that it might be time to consider making a change.

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Is PGT-A Testing Worth the Cost?
Jessica Katz Jessica Katz

Is PGT-A Testing Worth the Cost?

Starting or growing a family can be a journey filled with hope, excitement, and often, tough decisions. One of these decisions involves Preimplantation Genetic Testing for Aneuploidy (PGT-A). If you're considering this option, you might be weighing its potential benefits against the financial investment and the ethical questions it raises. Let’s break down what PGT-A is, its potential advantages, and how to balance these with the cost and ethical considerations.

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I Have Zero Regrets about PGT-A Testing Our Embryos
Jessica Katz Jessica Katz

I Have Zero Regrets about PGT-A Testing Our Embryos

Navigating the path to parenthood through IVF is a deeply personal journey, filled with hopes, challenges, and tough decisions. For me, one of those significant decisions was whether to invest in Preimplantation Genetic Testing for Aneuploidy (PGT-A). Reflecting on my experience, I want to share why this choice, despite its cost, proved to be right for me.

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Facing the Challenge of a Second Egg Retrieval
Jessica Katz Jessica Katz

Facing the Challenge of a Second Egg Retrieval

Imagine this: You’ve just completed your first IVF cycle. After a successful egg retrieval, you feel a mix of hope and anticipation as you learn that 13 eggs were retrieved. Then you learn 11 were mature and 6 were successfully fertilized. You wait as those 6 embryos develop, only to learn...

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Compassionate Support After Pregnancy Loss
Jessica Katz Jessica Katz

Compassionate Support After Pregnancy Loss

Dealing with pregnancy loss or the disappointment of unsuccessful fertility treatments can be incredibly isolating and overwhelming. It’s normal to experience a range of emotions, including grief, self-blame, and confusion. I deeply understand how intense and complex these feelings can be.

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Secondary Infertility
Jessica Katz Jessica Katz

Secondary Infertility

When you hear about infertility, you might picture couples who are struggling to have their first child. But there’s another side to this story that isn’t talked about as often: secondary infertility. This is when someone who already has one child faces difficulty conceiving another. It’s a topic that can bring up complex emotions and feelings of isolation, especially when it seems like others might not fully understand the pain of this struggle.

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PODCAST - My own experience rebuilding trust in my body, and how you can do the same
Jessica Katz Jessica Katz

PODCAST - My own experience rebuilding trust in my body, and how you can do the same

Exciting News! I recently joined Clara O’Rourke on The Mindful Womb podcast to talk about my journey through infertility and pregnancy. We covered how to rebuild trust in your body, manage anxiety, and use mindfulness to stay grounded. Tune in for practical tips and heartfelt stories that can offer support and comfort on your own path. 🌸✨

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How to find the right Lactation Consultant for YOU!
Jessica Katz Jessica Katz

How to find the right Lactation Consultant for YOU!

Finding the right lactation consultant can make a big difference in your breastfeeding journey, but with so many different approaches and philosophies out there, it can be challenging to know where to start. Here’s why researching and crowdsourcing recommendations for a lactation consultant might be the best way to find the right fit for you.

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You are absolutely right. This is not fair.
Jessica Katz Jessica Katz

You are absolutely right. This is not fair.

Discover how mindfulness can help manage anger and find inner peace amidst the challenges of infertility. Learn about Tara Brach's RAIN practice and practical steps to navigate emotions with compassion and resilience. If you're navigating infertility, this blog offers essential insights to support your emotional well-being.

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