The decision to start a family is personal, and if you're experiencing infertility, it’s often accompanied by the pressure of unsolicited questions from well-meaning—but sometimes intrusive—family members. If you’ve heard, “When are we going to get grandchildren?” or “Why haven’t you started a family yet?” you know just how triggering these comments can be.

Infertility is a deeply personal journey, one that can feel isolating and filled with uncertainty. But what happens when your path to parenthood intersects with the journey of a sibling who is experiencing pregnancy or planning for their own family? How do you navigate the complicated emotions of wanting to celebrate your sibling’s joy while grappling with your own grief, envy, and feelings of inadequacy?